"If anyone can help me, I sure would appreciate it. I don't know much about DOM/sub stuff, and I'm dealing with a sub who's had lots of sexual experience, but nothing kinkier than anal and oral...but he likes what his dom is doing so far...just doesn't quite know what to think of it because, up to this point, the guy has about had to be begged to do anything with him.
"But, I am now to the point where the DOM decides the sub needs to learn his place, and I am SO not into spanking, so...I need help. I decided to use a cock ring, but...don't know much about those, either.
"I've seen what they look like, but...that doesn't help me much....
"SOMEONE HELP, PLEASE!!! (Your reward? You get a sneak preview!)
"Thanks bunches to whoever comes to my aid!
"p.s. No, Mel, I hadn't forgotten about it. Just got really, really stuck in all my vanilla-ness. *blush* Sorry, hon."
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Date: 2007-02-06 06:24 pm (UTC)"If anyone can help me, I sure would appreciate it. I don't know much about DOM/sub stuff, and I'm dealing with a sub who's had lots of sexual experience, but nothing kinkier than anal and oral...but he likes what his dom is doing so far...just doesn't quite know what to think of it because, up to this point, the guy has about had to be begged to do anything with him.
"But, I am now to the point where the DOM decides the sub needs to learn his place, and I am SO not into spanking, so...I need help. I decided to use a cock ring, but...don't know much about those, either.
"I've seen what they look like, but...that doesn't help me much....
"SOMEONE HELP, PLEASE!!! (Your reward? You get a sneak preview!)
"Thanks bunches to whoever comes to my aid!
"p.s. No, Mel, I hadn't forgotten about it. Just got really, really stuck in all my vanilla-ness. *blush* Sorry, hon."